So much has happened since J and I got married in 2010. Both good and bad. Moved twice, changed jobs, welcomed new family members, family tragedies, having unexpected expenses, and etc. I'm a very organized person both professionally and in my personal life. I like it when things go according to plan and hate surprises. So far all the things J and I had gone through forced me to be more flexible. I realized I can only control a small percent of whats going on in your life, rest is not up to me. All that we have gone through also made me cherish even more of the great family and friends we have.